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Are Destination Weddings Rude?
Real fam, do you think it’s rude for couples to have a destination wedding?
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Its is very selfish.
NO NOT rude at all. As a future bride of a destination wedding, we are picking it because it allows me to have my dream wedding at half the cost and allows me to take a step back from being an overthinking perfectionist with anxiety just to make sure everything is just right. It’s hard to mess up the natural beauty and scenery of a beach backdrop. Not to mention my fiancé and I are getting 2 for 1 since we are using it as our honeymoon as well. And lastly this is about really about US and our big day, so ones that need to be there, WILL be and those that can’t make it, we won’t be mad and will understand if you can’t. Things happen. Life goes on ! Simple as that ! 🤷🏽♀️💯
it’s exclusionary.
Why don’t you live in Italy where you have no protection from the American government.
Do you also have a destination divorce? 😂💀
Idiotic! All these women are rude
Location not so loco, nice🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Maybe if the US had more paid time off people would be able to go
Then you divorced him lol
Hi edagdwg yes miss A.is soooooo real she didn't want people that came to come and hope they didn't sad Miss A. Didn't care she really want Miss Loni to be there But she did just because she know she wasn't wanted keep it real Linda j. Peace
I was thinking the same with Tamera! 💙
Loving Loni’s outfit!
It absolutely is a selfish bunch of garbage. I don't revolve my PTO for your impulse wedding that you saw on TV. Get over yourselves. It's not about the money. It's about my time. Nor is anyone trying to save for YOUR event. Get a clue.
Yes, it is rude when the bride and the groom are not willing to pay for certain portion of the budget. This might be a culture difference since I am from Asian country, but the thing I cannot understand is, why do I have to spend my money when they are the ones that want me there?
I don't think it's rude. You can do whatever makes you happy. But what I find rude is when people say they can't come because they can't afford it. And the bride and groom gets all pissed off about it.
I’m Indian and I don’t like half my extended family members so I would have a destination wedding just so half of them wouldn’t come 😂
“We didn't pay for anyone to come, but we thought the people that really should be there will come.” So entitled.
This a bunch of rich folks talking about poor folks problems.
I’d never go. Not even local weddings.
They are rude but MGTOWs quite frankly couldn’t care less about weddings as they don’t go to them and are against them. Western women are ancient history to enlightened Western men and western society is a sinking ship. It’s finished.
Yeah, I’d say it’s more than rude for a bride and groom to expect everyone to come to a wedding abroad especially if they don’t even get along with them, don’t resonate 1% with the others who are invited and have behavioural issues. I seriously cannot stand weddings. I doubt I’m even going to get married. Besides females today expect men to have a lot of money and do everything for them, therefore it doesn’t make sense to have anything to do with them if they’re that unreasonable. I’m satisfied as a single male anyway. It’s much better than being with a stupid cow who just “loves” you for your money.
I’m doing a destination wedding specifically to keep it small.
We invited people to our destination wedding as a courtesy, but are fine if only our immediate families come. That's the best way to keep it small.
It's only rude if you expect them to come to the wedding. There a lot of people who can't afford it. I will respectfully decline. Look at Loni coming through Adriene and Jeanie spoiled.
You give people a year or 2 in advance. That should be enough time
I think it's rude to have a destination wedding 6+ hours away and only give people a year to get everything in order. If you want 100+ people to show up to your destination wedding, you need to be accommodating with your timing, as for some, a year is not enough time to save up for that expense.
1:26 that laugh
No it’s not rude. It’s your wedding not theirs have whatever tf wedding you want.
2:57– Look how Loni is looking at Jeannie lol
You can get married and have a small local wedding….
Adrienne got married far away
Loni stay comin thru with the "Truth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" Some bridezilla are unrealistic and they demand things that they know people can't afford.
I'm having a destination wedding. I am well aware that not a lot of people will come for whatever reason but am in no way offended. I threw out the gift registry, will have no bridesmaids, and created a honeypot to pay for some people who we really had to have on that day. =) Also this wedding will take place in 1.5 years.
Well it’s the couples choice because it’s their wedding whatever they want
Adrienne dumb I wouldn't have said it was intentional to have a destination wedding to have a small group. If that's the case don't mislead people with wedding invitations be a grown woman about your choice.
Its rude as hell, just cause you have money doesn't mean your guests do.
Well Jeanie been uninvited y’all in the U.S still. So it really ain’t about that.
destination wedding means “i only want my wealthiest/most financially secure friends at my wedding” if it’s about having a small wedding have it small but if ur gonna use destination to make it small ur allowing financial status to define the guest list and that to me is little bit rude …
I had a destination wedding in Morocco and all my friends showed up and the house we got was big enough to have my friends and family with me. Everyone else made it into a holiday and travelled around afterwards or before the big day.
Just say who’s invited and who’s not invited lol I would. It’s my day and I’m inviting who I wanna invite. If you don’t know us as a couple , don’t hold your breath. I’m not going to another location across the world just to let you know that.
I love this look on tamera
Yes….Loni you tell them… Keep it real..
In love with Tamera hairstyle ⚘🌷
Just elope and stfu.
Ugh! I can't afford to go to that destination!! That's rude! I'd rather YOU pay for a very expensive large, at-home wedding! Bruh 😒 it's their day
I like destination weddings because I want it intimate and it is my day!
Rude maybe not. But a bit unconsiderate. I like Tameras recommendation.
Destination weddings are wrong. You only do it to exclude people. I had a large wedding with 400 people. It’s about other people not you. Our wedding was at an Hotel with dinner and dessert. We barely had time to eat at our own wedding. If you are going to have an Destination wedding. Have a simple party or small wedding for everyone where you live.