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Chinese Wedding Customs (三書六禮 – Three Letters & Six Etiquettes)

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Chinese Wedding Customs (三書六禮 – Three Letters & Six Etiquettes)

Thinking of doing a traditional Chinese wedding? Then you would need to follow 三書六禮 (three letters and six etiquettes). These are the steps followed by Chinese people throughout history.

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39 comments

@bigbong9453 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

I had been given the assignment to make a presentation on Chinese traditional Marriage, I actually need to know the difference between the ancient and modern steps of marriage for Chinese people etc

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@cherriemay528 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

That's uh complicated 😥

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@daegudiva 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

Carmen!!! You made this video 7 years ago, but it is new to me😎
I find Traditions so fascinating. BTW, speaking of old content: I loved when you played the most adorable "Cat Woman" and Dan was a lactose intolerant Bat Man. Also the Kung Fu melodrama is another favorite.

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@yixuanhao9759 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

it's not swan…is 大雁 that birds fly in sky

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@ronnelshepherd5184 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

I love Asian cultures

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@marilynnguyen3176 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

Did they ever do any of these other informational videos about Chinese weddings, bc I will watch them all

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@dongf2618 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

Too complicated…

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@charlenemayers7806 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

I would like to know more about the other traditions during the ceremony and wedding presents 🙂

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@hanxuan6924 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

Chinese wending music

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@someonesomewhere9451 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

hey even we ( indians ) have this ritual of matching date of birth n time of the bride n groom by the astrologer …

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@tatya8044 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

I just love your channel! I am so happy I stumbled upon it. I am a Anthropology student. I have to do a research paper on Traditional Chinese Culture in my Family Kin & Groups class. I was looking for Traditional Chinese wedding practices and found this video. Then I started watching more of your videos. I love them all. I will probably eventually watch them all. I even know what you mean in a lot of them because in Middle School when I lived in California, my best friend was Chinese. We always tried to get paired to do projects together and I would go to her house all the time after school. Her parents were a lot like you describe. Her mom was always making us eat food. I mean talk about afternoon snack. It was like a pre-dinner dinner. I remember we are at the table and she ask how many eggs I want. I said one please. And she put two and said. You eat two. It is good for you. She would always give me double of what I said I wanted. ha ha I was never able to eat dinner when I went home.

Well I would really like to learn even more about Chinese weddings. The rituals. 🙂 Thank you for sharing your culture with the world. 🙂

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@haoweishi1340 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

Its so sad that this doesn't happen much anymore in china cos its all westernised

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@alliearnold59 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

PLEASE make more!

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@miniClover1 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

can you please make a video on the birth date/ 8 letter?

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@noreenmabaso2957 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

This is literally like my culture (African)

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@T._.liu. 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

If it is that complicated,i will go with western style.

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@chloechang8810 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

You should do Chinese birth traditions!! Apparently when I was born my mum didn't wash her hair for a whole month. Please do more chinese traditions/legends, I always learn from you guys!
Always learn from you guys! XD

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@P3arlJang 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

Your dress is so pretty! 🙂

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@henrymucci 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

For some english learners like me, it would be perfect if the video subtitled. Hope u guys can work it out!

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@minnwong3004 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

What a nice video …

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@TheInfinityPrincess 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

I would like to see a video about the rituals! I love learning about the culture aspects of China. Thanks for your informative videos!

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@Eclipse807 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

I've been to five weddings during my time in China. I even played a song in one wedding. And in my neighbors wedding, I got to see behind the scenes (from the brides side) b/c she asked to borrow my apartment to help house guests.

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@chenvivianxinwei5353 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

I really like your videos!! Can you make a video about Cheongsam?

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@fergustam8935 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

Chinese wedding is way more than that….. You should do a whole video on the whole wedding procedure, it would take 3 hours to explain…

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@cristinawong5856 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

What about the more modern HK customs of the groom "knocking through the door", where the bridesmaids not only play games and tricks, but requests large sums of money. i.e. $9,999. My poor Caucasian brother-in-law never knew what hit him

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@WittyKittyRitzy 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

Any videos for western women/men on impressing the Chinese parents?

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@Commandos12 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

hmm so can ancient chinese farmers that doesn't own anything pass their farm really be able to afford all those stuff o.o!?

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@simonmacdonald888 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

talking to fast hihi

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@azngirl1854 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

can you make a Cantonese version pleaseeee

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@fred10418 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

great information, thank you

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@lillogadget 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

The modern version would be great- looking forward to it thanks

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@MyStuffedRabbit 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

Ha. Lucky I am Chinese American. Born in Taiwan grew up in the U.S.

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@banzailoco 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

And I've never seen that dress you're wearing Or that highlights in your hair that catch your eyes,
I have been blind
The lady in red is dancing with me cheek to cheek
There's nobody here, it's just you and me, it's where I wanna be
But I hardly know this beauty by my side
I'll never forget the way you look tonight
:p

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@banzailoco 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

你好辣妹
I've never seen you looking so lovely as you did tonight
I've never seen you shine so bright
I've never seen so many men ask you if you wanted to dance
They're looking for a little romance, given half a chance

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@손진주-b9e 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

Is there a reason why you use only 繁体字 and never 简体字?

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@GenevieveAutumn 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

Oh yes and please do a Cantonese one lol for those of us that will need to speak it on our wedding day! 😉

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@GenevieveAutumn 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

This is brilliant! Thank you, although I know a lot of your videos are for comedy, the informative side of them is priceless for me as I am dating a Chinese man and hope to marry him one day and so with me being white I have a lot to learn about Chinese culture and I want to embrace it all and pass it on to my children and these videos help so much! So a BIG THANK YOU! And I hope you are able to make many more for many years to come!

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@d0cipx 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

forgot so many things! What about the games (& the 999/all nines rule), the small roasted pig, the bride & groom toasting at every table, the candles, the red umbrella!

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@ryanjannakhuang 8 October 2024 - 10:19 pm

wait… what??

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