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WIBTA for Canceling a Bride’s Contract Two Days Before Her Wedding?
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Actually OP might be saving the bride from a nuke … I mean wtf…
that poor woman is in for a crappy marriage
I’m sorry you are a event planner and you plan weddings but you don’t include the rehearsal dinner as part of that?
Isn’t the rehearsal dinner to rehearse the wedding? How is that not just part of your package?
Cancel it. You'd be saving the bride if anything.
Cancel the wedding and keep the money. And for God's sake stop giving discounts out. It's kind of irrelevant whether the bride is nice or not. Being an hour late is in itself disrespectful behaviour.
If you talk to her first then nta of you didn't then eh still nta but more iffy
Speak to the bride and go from there
Talk to the bride and let her know how close she is to canceling your contract with her because of her fiancé's behavior at the rehearsal. I'd like to know if he said these things in front of the bride.
The golden rule in any profession: " DON'T get emotionally involved". The clause in the contract was put there for a reason. If you do not enforce the contract because 'the bride is such a nice person ' is creating a dangerous precedent, is enabling that bully of a groom and will damage your future projects. Terminate the contract and for good measure have a lawyer send a notification of cease and decease to the groom as such a red flag parade of a person might double down and start harassing you.
Yes, you would be. It wasn't the pride being rude.
maybe record him or get some evidence to show the bride and tell her that you hope she understands blah blah blah but you have to cancel the contract but maybe you could use the same payment if she ever reaches out to you again
Yes You Are….
The blatant demand to “be obedient” is so chilling
Talk to her first and then decide
I'd definitely have a chat with the bride about her fiancée's behavior. And let her know that I'll walk away if he doesn't pack it in !
NTA
Go ahead! You're saving her🎉
NTA
It's in the contract and hopefully she will wake up and realize that he's no good
If you do cancel you'd be doing the bride a favor, putting off the wedding and giving her more time to realize she's making a mistake.
So don’t be a little bitch and cancel. Enforce your own rules in the contract.
I really want to know if she went through with it
I'd really look into your states contract laws because I'm going to guess "abusive behavior" is categorized as persistent and ongoing, you were called stupid once and overheard a comment you disagreed with or found rude. It doesn't constitute abuse. You never experienced this behavior from this group before and you only have to carry out the duties for a limited time (2 days infact) where you probably will have limited contact basically I'm guessing your gonna lose the lawsuit coming your way if you decide to reneg on a almost complete contract. Also 😂 he called you stupid and you overheard something you weren't meant to overhear? Thats really not outside of the realm of normalcy for those types of high stress celebratory occasions so either grow a thicker shell or get out of the business. At the end of the day your trying to give out punishment because you feel wronged. I really hope your business model can support that.