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A 2025 Wedding Trend I HATE – Wedding Planner Reacts
In today’s video, we dive into the controversial and outrageous 2025 wedding trend that has everyone talking – making guests pay to attend! 😱💰 Join us as we react to this jaw-dropping trend, exploring the reasons behind it, the potential impact on relationships, and whether it’s a sign of…
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Not only would I not pay to attend your wedding.
If I received an invitation like this. I would instantly not be your friend because you would know better than to send me something like that.
I'm a good, generous, friend. I'm not paying to go to your wedding! This is the most absurd thing I've ever heard. Now the bright side of changes that have happened in the wedding industry. I like how you can actually go ahead and buy the couple a drink for their honeymoon or help pay for their honeymoon. That's something I'm I am all for supporting. I'm not paying for your actual wedding nope! Not going to do it
Not a chance I would attend a wedding I need to pay to for.
I don't go for free. Would never pay to see two idiots spend too much on one single day.
I don't think it's fair to have to send a gift if you DON'T attend. Wedding etiquette says you bring a gift to help the couple cover the cost of feeding you. They aren't feeding you if you aren't even there!
i thought this was going to be about the aggressive cake-face-smashing thing. But it was actually worse. It would never dawn on me to do these things 0_0
I would be so ashamed for asking my guests to pay for attending my wedding. I’d rather have a small group that I invite than embarrass myself with this nonsense. People shouldn’t compare their wedding to a concert. Wth? 🤦🏻♀️
We asked our wedding guests to donate to animal rescues instead of gifts but, we are old didn’t need gifts.
I hope this does not become normal in American society. My kids are little now, but I shudder to think that one day they’d live in a world where people did not host their own weddings and treated them like a business.
The music overpowers your voice, even if I watch your video with zero other sound or distractions, I still struggle to make out what you're saying 🙁 I wanna hear YOU! the song needs to be a far away wall decoration, not a table decoration in between the host to viewer conversation
Nah, either you want me to be there (and I'm happy to give 100 bucks as a gift), but I am not gonna pay to attend lol. Seems like it would make no difference but the latter is giving rude af
6:45 strongly disagree, simply being invited does not obligate anybody to send a gift! If that were the case, couples would now have a new racket going to invite a ridiculous number of guests, knowing they won't be able to attend, but sending gifts anyway "because etiquette". Nope.
I hate this trend too!!! Lol
I can't wait the background music. Just say what you have to say without the distraction.
At least this couples trend isnt starting wildfires like the gender reveal one
He's my fiance now. But 2 years ago I got invited to his cousin's bridal shower and I said ,"I'm not getting a gift for someone I've never met." That is when I feel like you're just getting an invite so that they get more gifts. I said NOPE to that. I also was a plus one for another wedding and said I would get the card but you put cash in it because again, it was HIS college friend I never met. How can I get a meaningful gift for someone I don't know? Me attending so you don't waste 35/plate is a gift in my opinion if you don't know them.
Great, give me one more reason to decline going to weddings.
I completely agree that you shouldn't charge your guests for the wedding! I've been invited to a few weddings where they were charging like $100 to attend (they said it was to cover the catering) but then they also wanted a wedding gift! I was like "no, sorry 😬." I feel like you should pick one lmao
Hey Katie Sautter ! While browsing around on Youtube, I came across your Yt Channel, And then I checked out your Instagram and LinkedIn. I must say, I absolutely love your videos and lifestyle! I'm curious, Even after your videos are good, the views are very less. Do you want to know why this is happening?
NPR, Good Morning America….uh huh.
And those sites/organizations aren’t discussing trends, they push propaganda.
So, this is what they are TELLING you to do.
This trend is extremely cringe . I would feel insulted if I was asked to pay to attend