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exes that tried to ruin the wedding – REACTION

by Charlotte Dobre
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exes that tried to ruin the wedding – REACTION

exes that tried to ruin the wedding – REACTION
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43 comments

@debbiethompson14 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

But I mean I don't respect a man that would do that to another woman

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@christmasina 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

Ok, if the dad had the ex bring the kids to the wedding, AND invited her, then it’s not the ex’s fault.

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@Santa-ny1yp 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

Never invite an ex. They are ex for a reason.

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@sharoncooper3042 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

A hole move to go with ex to the wedding, it’s a little high school, all of it.

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@EleanorMartin-eo7jr 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

Sweetie, get an attorney, annul the marriage and consider yourself lucky. Husband and family value her more than you and this is not going to stop with the wedding.

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@mzshanna1 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

OMG Charlotte, I usually agree with almost everything you say. I don't agree with you this time, ugh!!!

This broad invited her to a wedding. Whether she knew she would come or not, doesnt matter. She brought the children and drove 2 hours to get to the venue. What was she supposed to do? Stay outside, hell no. It's my time with the kids.

Now, it's time for me to be petty. Guaranteed, I wouldn't have invited the bitch.

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@Alesha_Lewer 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

No I agree with OP in the second story, NTA at all for staying when asked to leave, but YTA for wearing the red wedding dress

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@ashleybrooks8335 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

Listen.. I dig when you say about that you would want to know about your future husbands ex showing up, but I can almost guarantee (based on how she attacked the mother and gaslighting the mother), that she knew she would showing up but tried to convince herself that she wasn’t going to attend. It’s absolutely silly that anyone would get upset about this when they have children together. It would be SO different if they didn’t have kids and she didn’t get along with the bride..

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@YouElm 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

Charlotte, don't be stupid: Stephanie INVITED her not expecting her to accept. And she had to drive 2 hours; Stephanie fucked up and deserved it.

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@phatpharm06 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

That last one. Sounds like the son has always demanded the relationship on his terms only. Not sure how that is a threat.

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@iriscast10 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

Well. A funeral dress is better than a red or white one

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@iriscast10 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

This man in a black dress looks fabulous 👌

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@realmissrosenoir 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

Hell to the no. The son in the last story is a horrible person. Props to the family for supporting the ex wife and their grandbabies. 💖

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@lindareichert2256 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

I had friend who got engaged to divorced guy with 2 kids.The ex was always there.All holidays she was invited to the dinners,parties etc.He showed my friend no sympathy about this being very uncomfortable.Enough was enough and she broke up with this guy.His parents were jerks too saying she will always be family the ex.

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@Zazu-r2h 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

9:18 I got a domino pizza ad💀

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@MyJasperlover 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

ROTFLMAO…. If i had to sing at my exes wedding NGL I would sing….. Exes and Oh's by Elle King….. and follow that with the song…. 10 Things I Hate About You By Leah Kate

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@RavenWind78 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

If you remove the dress, I would disagree with the 2nd scenario. Her ex, the father of her kids, invited her to his wedding to Stephanie. If they were all on good terms, he had every right to ask her to be there. Stephanie's insecurities are her problems to deal with, not everyone else's. Add in the scarlet red dress, and yeah, that's rather over the top and uncalled for.

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@whitneys2556 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

Charlotte being able to SING wasn’t on my bingo card today!!

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@alanarama 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

9:47 for sure be the a-hole, why did they invite exes, so weird in this circumstance. Seems like bride and groom want to rub it in 😂 but yeah just don't go I guess

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@raven4090 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

If the bride didn't want the ex to be at the wedding, she should have said so before she made the 2 hour drive. Not waited until the day.

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@TopNotchWatcher87 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

I invited a friend from school to my wedding, and she brought my husbands one and only ex, and she wore white. I didn’t respond at all, I didn’t want to give her the satisfaction, but man I wanted to rip her hair out😂 been happily married for 17 years, and she didn’t stay long, I think she knew she wasn’t wanted.

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@dianecheney4141 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

It's not the husbands reaction but his mothers reaction that the bride needs to worry about. Mil is always going to invite the ex to all family holidays and mil will expect you to suck it up. I hope you have family locally so you can take your kids to their house for holidays

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@angelamarie79 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

I have seen several of these where the bride tries to control who can talk to who and who can dance etc… It's beyond my scope of comprehension that anyone could find the amount of audacity needed to make these rules in the first place. Could you IMAGINE being married to someone who has this kind of mindset???!!!!!

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@magsmiss3500 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

Side note: The ex has some pipes. She's good.

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@katiez460 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

11:40 is actually terrifying. That is controlling, psychotic behavior and is not normal or ok.

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@orthohawk1026 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

so the title of her post was a complete lie! It wasn't about the dress at all, it was about her being asked to leave for another reason entirely.

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@ellenosceola5707 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

Then she shouldn’t have invited her. Who sends an invitation expecting that the person won’t come? I think the dress was inappropriate, but at least she wasn’t wearing white.

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@yorkiegrit 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

3:44 Oh God I was on "pretty dress" gal's side until I saw the dress. I was thinking, well she needs to stay and supervise the kids, doesn't she? The bride was so right!

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@citizenn5023 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

Marries her friend's ex boyfriend who's also her (bride's) boyfriend's cousin. Chiiile…the MESS😬

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@lauriemapplebeck1286 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

Farmers are HEROES!!!!! Love all of you!🇨🇦✅🙏🏼♥️

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@TangledPie 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

The anti disney items lady would die if she entered my house. I have 30+ food plushies in my kitchen. 😂 who cares if other people think it's tacky if something brings you joy.

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@lmbachman 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

Every time my husband's ex-wife gets remarried, she asks my husband to be the DJ.

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@happytobefree4314 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

I would avoid the husband taking his wife's side. Why would he invite her? Because she had the kids? Is he really that stupid? He couldn't have traded. He is definitely not a prize. DIVORCE him.

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@kpeugh2011 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

11:25 how does just going and being a normal guest (who happens to be “with” the brides ex who was also invited) make the OP someone who’s trying to “ruin” the wedding. Honestly no guests will notice the OP and fellow ex is breaking rules. Just the jerk bride and groom. If THEY make a scene then others will notice but honestly if I were a guest and knew bride was marrying OPs ex and saw that OP was with brides ex I would chuckle but not make a big deal. And seeing them dance wouldn’t make me blink twice. People dance at weddings. People drink from an open bar. It’s kinda what guests do…

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@kpeugh2011 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

2:57 the OP was invited. If the bride made an assumption then that makes her (bride) the assumption not OP. It was OP’s day with her kids and unless dad was willing to give up time on his day, OP had the right to refuse to allow the kids to attend if she wasn’t also allowed to be there.

Bride should have either arranged a trade and not invited mom OR expected mom to stay. Bride wanted OP to be the “babysitter” for the kids before and after the event so she didn’t have to figure out childcare. That’s a dick move.

If OP had left, the kids would have left too!

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@charlottebrown5958 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

Husband should have your back! Drop him!

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@Rtarl 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

If you are invited to a wedding and drove 2 hours to get there with ex’s kids, what was she supposed to do, drive two hours back home and then drive two hours back to get the kids and then drive two hours back to go home again? That’s 8 hours of driving for nothing…
I would have left the kids there and let husband watch them.. definitely the husbands fault.

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@Blakenew127 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

NTA. If the bride didn’t want her to attend the wedding …

…She shouldn’t have agreed to sent an invitation. Much less act shocked when she came for the party.Think things through people. The bride was responsible for who she invited and she prioritised being polite over honest and didn’t want to pay the price for it. She wanted others to pay the price for her own choices. It is not only her wedding but her husband’s, the father of the kids. If I had any doubts my husband’s loyalty and love for me, I wouldn’t have married him. Even if I was willing to take the risk, I would absolutely make it VERY CLEAR that his ex wouldn’t be allowed in the wedding list, much less wedding venue.

If I was the mom, I would be pissed to have to drive 2h to get there, discover bride uninvited me in the spot, then 2h to return home because the bride changed her mind, then 2h to pick the kids and more 2h to return home. There is no way I would be doing this 8h logistics. But I also wouldn’t be picking a wedding dress for the occasion haha again the fact red is the colour is not an issue. If the title didn’t say wedding dress I would never dress it was a bridal dress,.

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@takerhapsody 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

Two of my exes were at my wedding and I was at theirs . I was bridesmaid for one .

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@rainerivers8181 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

For second story I agree with the OP just due to the facts 1.she was invited, doesn't matter if the bride thought she wouldn't stay she allowed the invite. 2. OP said it was a 2 hour drive, which means to leave and then return for the kids and go home would have been 4 trips so 8 hours… and it was her time with the kids 3. OP, the ex, and the ex's bride are on good terms.

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@alibialibi4399 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

He did not ask her to sing at his wedding. She took the mic and started singing herself.

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@Strawberryfearsforever 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

3:18 There was no miscommunication. She was invited. She's not responsible for knowing the ride was playing games and being immature.In the end I would've left because I got better shit to do ,and it would've been so uncomfortable anyway.

But she had no business wearing that dress to that lady's wedding.

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@dianajohnston3042 21 October 2024 - 2:06 am

The one going with bridezilla's ex to the wedding…yeah..i would still go..after all the shit..and all the fucked up stuff and asinine rules just for her and bridezilla's ex…yah..i would go and break every fuckin g rule

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