Anna Bey
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Guest Etiquette – Dos & Don'ts For Elegant Ladies
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These are just common sense, but it means that many don't observe them now. Respect covers them all. I was raised this way, and I wonder if it is good to have been born and raised as a lady as I am often shocked when people don't observe these things while most don't feel offended. Why I'm watching this is because I wanted to see if there are still people who feel the same way.
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I have some rude family members that need to hear this!!!
One asked me last Thanksgiving to not put any onions or peppers in ANY of the dishes because she didn’t like them! 😡 This 40+ yr old woman was dictating to the me the host how to make the meal the way SHE would make it!
Who does this? What full grown woman thinks it’s ok to tell the host what not to add to the meal.
all of these etiquettes are part of Islam
A baby on board
Yeah they have no class on reality shows
It’s a rule I grew up with that you should always plan on being 15mins early for a job.A personal event should literally be on time
I love it when my guests arrive hungry. It’s a compliment when there is a clean plate.
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I love your dress.
I love your educational videos. I'd like to hear how to manage people at a dinner party who dominate every conversation. They do all the talking and make it about them may they'll tell their life story, and not let anyone in edgeways. So it's just one long monologue instead of conversation… Thank you!
Yes RSVP!
I always get so triggered and even upset when people don’t reply. I find it rude and ignorant. I need to remind myself to keep calm when I throw a party
I once hosted a ladies tea at church. Not one of them dressed for the occasion though I told them the expected dress. Most came in jeans and a T-shirt, I was the only one dressed appropriately. I felt disrespected because I had worked so hard to make it not only like a elegant proper tea, and spent more money than I really had at the time. I was deeply disappointed.
About RSVP's: especially with events that are long in advance, sometimes a person doesn't know what their own schedule is going to be like on the specified day. For those who work a 9 – 5 job, and especially over a weekend as well – perhaps even those who work a job where they have to go out for an emergency, it's not always so clear cut whether a person is going to make it to an event or not. There are times where a person might cautiously RSVP – where they state they're interested in going, but don't know what their schedule will be like on that specified day. In situations like that, a person who is invited might need to pull out at the last minute due to work commitments. 🙏👍
I hate wine and whenever anyone gives me a bottle l 'recycle' them when I am invited anywhere. Lol
Ppl who are always late….😑
1st part. It's extremely annoying.
About the plus one thing. It's also even more rude to bring your children if they are not invited! And I say this as a parent having all the empathy for parents and knowing It's hard to get a good babysitter. But it's truly enoying when people bring kids to am grownup event!
Anna is the pioneer of elegance. Others are copying lol.
I laugh at the do not take calls or check your phone….I dont…and have had significant others, give me a very hard time for not being responsive to them – going so far as to show they have trust issues.
These things, I was always taught growing up. If someone invites you somewhere, whatever it is, show them respect as a guest. Or even, going to a club or restaurant, show the respect to those hosting you.
Very good advice. I was so annoyed once when I invited a woman to a get together, and she showed up with not one but two of her friends. To top it off, they spent the whole afternoon and evening sitting alone in their own little clique, made no effort to socialize and they had come empty handed so they drank other people's wine all evening. It was the height of rudeness, and I wasn't the only one who noticed. Their behavior made a few people uncomfortable. Never invited her to anything again.
I totally agree with you Ms . Anna
Thank you so much
My two cents for those who are chronically late: Personalities differ and some people have to work harder on timeliness than others. For many years I have been at a loss why I am not able to be on time even when I try really hard! I have stopped giving excuses for why I am late today because there is nothing grand to tell. No sceptic tank spilling over on my kitchen floor and no pets that decided to get lost right at the moment when I had to leave. Now (at age 34) I can see there are several factors at play: a poor sense of time, a tendency to over schedule because I am too optimistic about how much I can get done, perfectionism so I keep redoing my hair, ill-timed distractions when I am preparing to get out the door (a last minute request from someone e.g. and not saying no, or thinking I can completely redo my lashes last minute), and a habit of procrastinating not for this event but in other areas of life. So in short, a lack of realism about how much time you need to work through your checklist. And the list grows longer when you have children. I figured that it means I don't necessarily need to try harder when I have to, but need to try more often when I don't have to. Practice getting out the door looking immaculate plus immaculate looking children. I tried it this morning for a doctor's visit for my eldest, where I brought along my baby whom I could have left home with my husband, and I was early! I only forgot to report my daughter's absence at school 🤦. But hey, let's call it improvement…
I would have never thought about the eating before Rule,that one is Really a Jule…Thank you for the heart you left Me Ms.Anna.
Don't everyone has a family member 🤣 who always started a fight on the family parties, oh my God I have an auntie who always does 🙄🤣she always start fighting with my uncle 🤣
Is not party without them lol 😂
But not classy at all 😓
I think we learned how to behave
Mostly by watching other people behaviors, we definitely don't want to look like clowns.
Except when invited to a Jewish home for Shabbat…then you need to drop off a non edible gift before candlelighting.
This was such a great video offering amazing advice – I'm saving this one!
One hundred percent agree with the time management advice. I cannot understand people who are rude enough to ignore the time as if it is of no importance. So disrespectful!
Love that outfit
Even though I do nothing you say and I’m not interested in learning, your channel is like a breath of fresh air to me in the mist of the storms I’m always in lol #truth
Listening here as if I had a life and invitations. Amazing videos though.
I am happy to have most of these manners. Thank for parents to teach me all these manners 🙂
This was great! Thank you 😊
Anna, I have been that bad guest… I so appreciate your reaffirming appropriate etiquette. I am teachable!
I grew up with proper manners. Years and years of negative influence has had its impact. Your tutorials are helping polish my manners, style, out look,and confidence. I am very thankful! Now I'm able to present myself in a more dignified manner. People are more respectful and attentive. GOD BLESS
Anna, you are hilarious. I finally found someone who teaches like I used to when I was a public school teacher; your vocabulary, the way you model proper behavior/and improper behavior, your detailed examples, and your patient, non-shaming way. I never talked down or above my students, and I was always honest. Thank you
Please do an at ‘work’ etiquette video about serving and selling customers with chatty drama associates ! Thank you !
My new method to handle a friend who was always bringing extra food to our afternoon luncheons (which we rotate at each others' home), is to email the times, menu, with the statement that extra food will not be unnecessary unless you have a specific dietary need that you alone will need, or unless you check with me ahead of time!
Certainly my number one complaint about inviting people over. I once got a reply to a dinner invitation for the whole family – "I'm pretty sure we'll make it", or "we'll be there unless………..". She ended up calling the day before to cancel because another family member decided to come visit them. I was highly offended. Now, when I issue a casual invitation, I give them parameters like – "Let me know by Wednesday, etc."
Loved this. Thanks
Great thank you 🙏
time management is very true. we should be very careful and dress in time. we keep people waiting for the program or dinner .
ANNA Bey you are excellent in your little tips we normally skip.. thanks so much. grace and elegance are the best qualities of women
You’re the best Anna!!! Your suggestions are changing my life. It really works 🙂
Tankyou.