Kat May
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How to Deal with Parent's Divorce: My Experience + Tips | KATMAS 3
Hi there, I’m Kat! Today I wanted to talk about something a little more serious than I normally do – how to deal with your parent’s divorce. My parents were officially divorced back in 2015, and I thought I would share the experience (from my perspective) and some tips I have to dealing with a…
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My parents are in the chance of divorcing. I'm very young and I need my parents. I don't know what to do. I was talking with my online friends, they helped but I was still not healthy. I'm currently crying and i am hopeless. I'm too young.
My parents divorced after being married for 3 years, i was 2-3 when they divorced and i only know that when i was 8-10
My mom is cheating on my dad idk what to do:((
i’m 11 and just found out. it’s hard. please help
25 years. 4 children. A big house. I'm only 14.
Been the topic for a few weeks now. They might do it no more than 2 months. My dad doesn't come home at night for a few days now.
He knows he's guilty, he doesn't accept it and make a lesson from it. Hypocrisy paid off. After all that fighting, arguing, BEATING. It's over.
This is for the good of both of them. Dad, I wish you the best in life even though you were bad in the past to my mom, me and my siblings. There were moments you were good and moments you weren't. You tried to hide them, but in the end, you always acted upon your demons..
Farewell, Dad.
Hello Kat,
I'm in my early thirties, I'm a Canadian-born Chinese/ Chinese Canadian man. I've been through the experience of parents not getting alone with each other their whole lives and they are still together and we still live each other. So I guess the second part is where we differ slightly. Thank you for the advice dealing with the dynamic of parents arguing / fighting. I'm really thankful you put this video up.
Have a great day
I'm 13 years old, and this is the last situation I thought I'd be in. My mom told me the news about her and my dad splitting up today, and now I just feel all this pain, and I'm trying to just accept this, but its too sad and painful to think about. I'm gonna miss being a happy family, and I'm just crying so hard right now. This is a lot to process as a young person, and I just have to see where I go in the future, and how much this will affect me.
my parents just split today, i couldnt even stop my dad from hurtning my mom, good thing i was able to call my sister to resolve everything, but my mom is being forced out by my dad, so shes choosing to move to her home province/town, theyre making me choose, i dont know what to do, live with my mom and start a new life, or live with my dad, only new thing would be that i wouldnt have a mom to be next to, to talk or speak to, or even hug.
I don’t know what’s happening…
I’m 11 and my parents are getting divorced and my mom has low blood pressure and she is very sick but she kept yelling at me saying I should stay with my dad but I want to stay with her. Now she’s saying that she is going to send me back to my old home with my dad but I love her. Why can’t things be like before? I feel like it’s all my fault.
Mine too im 9 and there doing it right now
My mother found out that my father was seeing someone else, and now she is hitting or abusing him, I just can't deal with this
Often times my parents argue and my mom says things like…'im gonna leave' or im 'absolutely done' something like that… Yet they go back to doing normal after sometime… But this my mom is pretty upset and right now im scared out of my wits writing this.. Absolutely petrified
My parents weren't married but they separated and they're trying to hide it from me and it's so hard to hide my feelings and pain while coping their "break up"
My parents were all smiley and happy these days idk if they acted so that it wouldnt affect me but i dont really know… suddenly they decided to get a divorce and my dad broke it down to my mom abt it and i went into the room for no reason, my mom was literally crying on the floor so i just left the room i still cant believe this is happening. Tq for the advice tho..
My parents are arguing and screaming lately and my dad said he had his bag ready and I think they will split
Thank you so much I just found out my mom and dad are splitting up so thank you 🧔♂️💔👩👧🧑
My parents are divorcing and I feel like this is the lowest point of my life. To add up more bad things. I have had a bunch of bad luck as what I’d call it. My cat died. My parents. School isn’t going so great. Well I don’t know about the school thing. Having to deal with all that stuff while trying to have good grades is hard.
Thank you for this…. it helps a lot
And my mom has cancer trying my hardest to do what she needs for her health
I’m 15 dealing with a lot and it’s making my mental health more worse I’m dealing with depression and severe anxiety
Im 8 and my parents have been married for 25 years i think suicide is the best option for me 😢
i’m scared and upset. i think my mum is divorcing my dad, he has been crying in his room and i’m scared he will commit suicide. i know life isn’t fair. it’s hard.
im 11 my parents annonced the divorce a week ago and im still shaken
My mom and dad had a lover marriage mom got pregnant with me when i was 1 month old they got divorced it had effected me mentally now that I'm a teenager mom got married again and it's like kind off toxic bcz who would want a step daughter living with them dad never married again but I was never close to him he is the typical old minded shy person i feel bad for him i wanna get close to my dad again without being creepy idk let's see what happens
im barely 14 and my mom js told me about this. i never thought i’d be searching this up. to anyone going through this to, i know its gonna be ok for both of us and its not your fault ❤
Thank you so much. This helped me so much
My parents got a divorce today as a 11 year old my whole life feels horrible I’m just lost and I don’t feel like I wanna live on this earth’s anymore
Back in the late 1990s, my parents were married and they were very happy. 98, my first eldest sister was born (she’s now 25), 02, my second eldest sister was born (now 21), 05, my older sister was born, (now 18), and 07, my twin and I was born (I’m now 16 but I don’t even remember my twin because I was only young). Throughout our years in our family life, everything was perfect, and then that moment ended in 2020. At the age of 13, my parents were acting very strange. And then, my siblings and I found out that my parents are getting a divorce. Now, my mom has a new boyfriend and my dad has a new girlfriend and has a son. It’s been hard for me after 4 years of getting divorced.
My mom and my dad got divorced when I was 4 or 5 and I’m 13 and it is very hard cause they don’t get along at all but I do get to see them both
Going trough this shit rn .
WHY DO MY PARENTS HAVE TO DIVORCE 😫😭😠😡😭😭
My parents they just don't speak at home and pretending that they are not here,they are going to devorce
My mother had a friend and they stopped being friends after an arguement, my cousin never came over after that, after a little while my mom turned bisexual, my mother and my other mom broken up today. It reminds me of when my mother stoped being friends with her friend.
My parents split up 2 weeks ago and as a 12 year old it’s hard so thank you
My dad today told me that they my mom wants to divorce and shes trying to find a new house it really broke my down, and my dad wants me to pick the parent im staying at i really dont know what to do. (i am 12)
my parents got in a huge argument and in the middle of the agruement they said they were going to divorce. My heart broke into pieces as soon as i heard that. They still live together but every night i would still cry in my room before going to sleep. Sometime i would even go on my phone and search up how to make myself happy considering im only 11 and dealing with this at the age of 11 is very hard
These days it's a right of passage when parents split.
My father left my mom for a man and she left him for a marrief one.
I roll my eyes whenever people whine about being from a broken home.
i am 13
My parents are both trying to make it work for me but they don’t or my mom doesn’t feel the same way about my dad and they had me when they were teenagers and over time they grew apart my heart is broken and I love them so much but it hurts
my parents split yesterday and my heart broke. part of me was expecting it, but it hurts a lot. i hope it gets better
My mom and dad divorced today and I’m heart broken 😭😭😭