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How to Officiate Your First Wedding [6 Essential Pieces of Advice]

by athompson
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How to Officiate Your First Wedding [6 Essential Pieces of Advice]

In this video you’re going to learn how to officiate your first wedding ceremony.

After performing a couple thousand weddings, these are the areas that I think are most important to know.

So with the following quick video you should have everything you need to perform your first wedding and…

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48 comments

@believeinjesus8300 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Brother, how helpful thank you. 🙏🏾

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@Gilyse 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Nice. Thanks, I got asked to officiate a wedding. Out of nowhere. Tomorrow. Joy!

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@hpbmike 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Thanks for a great video island Mike. I’m officiating my first wedding in Morocco, do I need to be ordained if the Wedding is being held abroad?

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@colleenp5871 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

I have my first coming up next weekend! This was so helpful.Thank you!

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@SpeedForce4525 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Glad i found this video. My brother is getting married today. Better start cramming 😬

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@maynx2743 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

This is awesome and super helpful! I’m single, no girlfriend or anything, so I’m gonna store this info for the next few years or decades. If I ever get married I’ll come back to this comment.

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@logan1nwo 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Awesome job. Thank you

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@philliplarocque9328 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

How many syllables would you recommend for repeating? Also I'm subscribing. Thanks for a great video and even greater tips!

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@bigred1712 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Im an ordained minister and just got licensed to wed. Im marrying my best bro and his fiancée Thursday as my first wedding. Im scared to death. 😂😂😂 im gonna crush it, though. I'll keep looking at her mom and when i see those tears, I'll know ive made it lol.

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@foodieboogie494 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Thank you so much! BIG help. Im officiating my sister-in-laws wedding and its also my debut 3 weeks from today.

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@sarkishajian 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

"If today's Friday, and tomorrow's the wedding, you have a little cramming to do…"

That literally me, right now.

I actually have most the script written out… just polishing it now.

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@pamelam6804 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Amazing tips. Thank you so much.

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@emmapearce3711 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

❤❤q

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@Bernard-l2k 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

GOOD TIPS

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@lorisamolsky4037 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Is there any room for stories in the process about the bride / groom / family ! I want to do something really unique for my niece. Something creative. She’s a wedding planner and I want to add something unique unique

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@nater2000 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

You lost me as soon as you said this was “your” show, the wedding is for no one but those that are being married, keep it simple and don’t make it about yourself if you are officiating a wedding

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@sabinawanjiru1261 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

You are the best !! Just enjoyed and learned so much from you. Tomorrow Saturday. I have been request ed to officiate one it my first time 😢. You nailed it

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@dllms 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

I search for canada and no idea why you come out you took is so stupid

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@ChelsieDavey 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Are names are Jesse are Jesse & Chelsie wea are getting marred soon but we have a question about speakers

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@JohnLopez-dq7tq 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

I was so nervous….but watching your video has helped me out tremendously….thank you….

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@davidwheatley6540 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Fuckin legend!

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@msdjmcclure 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

How long do you stick around after the ceremony? Do you attend the reception or no?

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@dguillen1978 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

How much do you charge per wedding?

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@krishender 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

How MANY weddings should a person expect in their lives….always thought this should be a ONE time event in a persons lifetime ! Possibly understand making ONE marriage MISTAKE (barring death). However…the whole 'meaning' seems to lose something, otherwise !!

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@WheelgunsOnWheels 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Excellent advice. Thank you so much for your tutorial as I will be officiating my cousin’s wedding in a month. I’m a high school teacher so public speaking is a breeze for me, but outside of family funerals I’ve yet to address this type of crowd. Looking forward to the big day.

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@danielfuentes892 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Your explanation is so on key with wise simple instructions. I'm doing a wedding in a couple of hours. It's my 6th. 😮

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@KnightTakesQueen 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Did everyone who officiated get ordained?

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@breatheu 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Thank you

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@MrAnthony683 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Wow simple things that matter. Great advice wish me luck. Thank you.

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@tonyaroberts2079 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Thank you for this!! Very concise and to the point. I will be officiating mine in 2 months. (May 2024)

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@davidlamping8956 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Enjoyed your video. Studying hard to get it right. Looking for a good script to follow for my first time. Marrying my Nephew. Thanks for the tips

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@DanielIsaiahElias 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

I recieve

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@melissamccarthy2339 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Do you need to sign any other paperwork than the license? Or do I need to have my license on me?

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@Sweetpeainkart 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Thank You for this video!! I officially my friends wedding in a few months. I’m so excited and nervous. This was really great tips!

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@jayaedo3200 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Is unprecedented to officiate your ceremony? I am the groom. I've never heard of it being done before, but this is what feels best for us and what we're doing. Any recommendations on how to go about this?

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@crazyburkey3677 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

I like the idea of putting the vows in the pages of a book, it would look better than just having it on a piece of paper in front of you

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@geraldlane1077 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

I have been asked to perform my nieces wedding, 6 weeks from now. This is the first wedding video I have watched. Your tips are excellent! Great video! Thank you! GBL

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@JessicaForsyth-jm9ve 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

I'm officiating my first wedding. They are wanting to do a unity candle so the brides daughter feels included as if they are coming as a new family. At what point do I add that in. Before/ after vows? They also want love is patient love is kind verse. When is the best time to add these things in the ceremony?

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@truckerdougie3827 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

I’m officiating my first wedding next weekend!! Super pumped and nervous!!

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@KathyRobertsTidyTutor 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

In NJ I need to complete a civil celebrant course offered by a non-denominational or educational charitable organization that is registered with the State under the "Charitable Registration and Investigation Act. Do you qualify?

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@license2Bort 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Thank you for your video. Nailed my first wedding yesterday and Bride/Groom couldn't be happier!

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@SandraBell-sg4xk 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Thank you so much! I have my first ceremony in 2 days and you definitely helped settle some of the butterflies!

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@youngrav2311 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Life saver dude! Thanks for getting my foundation started! Sisters wedding in a week! Why did I say yes to this again lol?

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@NAforu 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

I’m trying to get my father ordained for my wedding can anyone help ?? Which website is good to use

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@evansrawfootage 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

I took your advice and nailed it. I received many compliments. A 10 year old asked if I "went to school for 5 or 10 years to learn that". Video posted. I'd do it again.

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@RobynTellstone 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

I just applied to be ordained, do I need to pay the $49 to get the certificate?

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@evankinnane958 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

if you're Dwayne (the rock) Johnson, I forgive you

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@sterlingsmith1824 3 October 2024 - 12:59 pm

Thank you so much for this video! It was the first video I watched when my friend asked me to officiate his wedding and it was so helpful❤

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