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How to stop arguing with your partner–in just minutes | Roderick Jeter | TEDxSanDiego
Why Be Angry? You can settle most any disagreement with the one you love is just minutes. No Fuss No Drama. Rod’s game approach helps couples overcome seemingly insurmountable disagreements that have lasted decades, in just minutes – NO FUSS NO DRAMA.
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So boring
Quick fix does not fix a relationship! Yes it will fix the mood for the day or the week but a thriving relationship requires far beyond a 30 minutes game.
Education
Goal alignment
Love
Tolerance
Patience
Forgiveness …….
I started searching for answers cause I'm with a partner we argue alot but this make sense
Where do you find such women… or men are suppose to speak to the mirror. Because there’s no way my woman’s staying on topic or calm 😂
So text them don't talk? Got it 👍
Internal healing makes a person feel comfortable in their own body and more calm & connected with everyone around them. It all starts inside! 💛
I’m here to fix my relationship because I love my girl
And you'd say that this with a person who leads with anger or is easily angered or agitated??
Calm moods and laid back attitudes are the moat important skill to have for communicating the subjects that are more delicately interconnected with our emotions and subconscious thoughts.
Wow 43 million likes
There is a problem and how do we solve it?!
This is amazing. I'm gonna try it 😁
I was thinking about having a journal that can be passed back and forth between most important people in our lives and do exactly what you are proposing:)
Can u not do the weird high pitched “female” voice? Irritating and sounds like ur mocking ur own mother.
JUST GET TO THE POINT
Wonferful talk!!! Stellar endeavor with Awesome goals!! More powerful to U Man!! Thank U!!! 💗👍👍💗👏👏💗
This doesn’t work with narcissists
What about past betrayal?
I'm here because my wife is forcing me to go to a day spa.
O (dear) soul, Love alone cuts disputation short, for it (alone) comes to the rescue when you cry for help against arguments.
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RUMI
The speaker talks about when things are good at home you can bring that good vibe/energy to work. Well, it’s the other way around too. When you’re too stressed and burned out from work it is hard to show up and give the best version of yourself at home.
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So short sighted… What if the response is, Ihear what you want, but I don't want to/or won't initiate and I don't want to/or won't fix the tv's?
Great vengeance and furious anger
That was awful and I learned nothing…
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Sorry , it was my phone . Had to go to settings and adjust 😂
Dude! You talk so fast and you sound robotic
i have done everything he has said step by step with my partner and tehy refuse to communicate reasons why they feel the way they do, what can i do im trying so hard….
How do you use this technique with someone who gets mad and drained from talking about problems someone who would rather sweep them under the rug and act like they don’t exist rather than fix them? How do I get them to a point where they actually want to discuss it without making their anxiety rise and then feel attacked
Because I'm on my period lol . Sometimes it can't be reasoned away .
OK so you telling me. that the moment a disagreement starts, I should tell my wife, honey lets write down our disagreements and then talk it over. She would just ignore me and continue being angry.
Wow! So happy I found this video. I pray this works. We love one another so much but the arguing is destroying us 😥
We stopped fighting after listening to this, didn’t write a single thing down
I still have to watch this from time to time. It was a wonderful experience, and it's all so true. Why Be Angry?
Except that written communication has shortcomings too. You may read the statements of your partner with an annoyed, angry, accusing voice creating the opposite situation if what he demonstrated.
If I tried this with my lady, I’d get murdered as soon as I suggested it
When two or more people argue, they are actually fighting each other. Just that it is not a physical fight that they're having. but a neurological fight.
OK I’m gonna try this with hubby….. thank you and great speech
Great presentation! I love the way you break it down. Why be angry?
Beautiful. Simple. Elegant. ❤❤❤