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HOW TO WRITE THE *PERFECT* MAID OF HONOR SPEECH – you'll cry, because I did

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HOW TO WRITE THE *PERFECT* MAID OF HONOR SPEECH – you'll cry, because I did

Today we’re going to talk about how to write the *PERFECT* Maid of Honor speech! It’s a huge honor to be picked to give a speech at your friend’s wedding, so use it as a chance to love and honor them on their wedding day. I know it’s a nerve wracking thing, but I’ve gotchu! Leave any questions…

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31 comments

@maddievasiliev 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Thank you so much for watching my video! I'm not kidding when I say please leave any speech questions you have below and I will do my best to help you out! You're gonna do awesome giving your speech, I'm rooting for you!

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@MindYoBeeswax 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

I'm 5mins into this video and I already feel such a sense of ease now. You reminded me that this isn't supposed to be a daunting experience. It's like we're all too focused on how we're going to feel a little awkward but if you just turn that focus outwards, it reminds you that it's not even about you haha if that makes sense. Basically, thank you 🙏😊

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@mariadelaluznavarrorodriguez 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Amen ❤

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@etvscandalfanpage2011 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Thanks Maddie, it's my best friend's wedding this coming weekend. I'm preparing a speech. I'm shy🤣🤣🤣🤭. Good luck to my self

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@BafneyFraser 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Help me out wit my speach for wedding for dis satday

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@themakeupwolf5354 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Thank you for this video! I have to write a speech as a MOH and I felt lost.

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@rizz420_ 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

this was so extremely helpful thank you so so so much!!! I'm a brides maid for my cousins wedding, and I was choosing to give the speech. this is my first ever speech, so again thank you❤❤❤❤❤

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@badcookie0633 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Thank you so much for this. I’m still feel so unprepared for my sister’s wedding 😂😅 but this has given me a lot more peace about what I want to say to her as I send her off with my new brother in law. You are amazing! God bless you!

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@havilahlynch903 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Hi Maddie!
This is such a helpful guide! I'm usually pretty good when it comes to speaches and public speaking, but I was a bit unsure when it came to maid of honor speeches. Your video was the first one that came up when I searched for some help! My older sister is getting married at the end of August, and I want to leave some lasting words for the beginning of their new life together. Thanks for the tips! I was pleasantly surprised when I heard you were also a Christian, I feel so many people in the event industry are not😅
I'll be subscribing and watching through more of your videos! Thanks for posting this 😊

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@sktwyman4494 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

You have a very calming demeanor! Thanks so much

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@Redcanadianmoose 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

I’ve been putting off doing my Moh speech writing for almost two years now, the wedding is in 4 days! Every time I go to do it I’m so nervous I get choked up. Decided today’s the day and was searching for inspiration to get the groove but this is perfect! Also your voice is so calming.

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@sheinnamikka 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Thank you so much for this, ma'am! This is a great help, especially for someone like me who's a first-time maid of honor. God bless you always!

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@sherryritter9175 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Just found out that I have to give a speech tomorrow. This made it easy to get a speech done. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

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@ishtargurl 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

I'm on the autism spectrum and struggle socially with what to say. Your video helped me so much to write my speech and understand what to do at the wedding. Thank you so much.

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@keudae 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

I’ve been stressing myself out for weeks over writing this, and I’m soooo happy I found your video! I feel like I can actually do this and I won’t fail!! Thank you for calming me down!!!!

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@imagineinspireignite5799 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Giving a maid of honor speech for the first time in just a few days and I'm so incredibly nervous and excited!!!

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@Your.favvv_brooke 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Thank you so much! I’m not a maid of honour or a best man I’m the daughter of the bride/bridesmaid but I’m still going to be making a speech at my mom’s wedding and had no idea how to write one. I don’t know if it’s any good but it came from the heart

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@slowmantyrone5753 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

So I am my Best friends Man of honor for her wedding and i cannot tell you how nervous I am to write this speech for her and her soon to be wife. this really really helped me get started with how to write a speech…. THANK YOU

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@earlkryzelpalad802 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Is it okay if I cry during my wedding speech? Because since teachers I cry during my teacher 's Day speech I cry because I think that's embarrassing and laughed at me

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@earlkryzelpalad802 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

I thought about doing it that I want to write wedding speeches for my cousin to her next wedding anniversary and if my one of my male cousins gets married or if my one of my female cousins gets married I Will write speeches or I go to speech for his or her wedding 🥰🥰🤗🤗 and my wedding wishes I hope his or her make me a bridesmaid or maid of honor I hope that's my wishes come true

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@vibinvina4309 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

My sisters wedding is in like about I think four days

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@alyssa_issocool 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Thank you so much! Im 13 and the Maid Of Honor at my sisters wedding and I started freaking out bc they didn't sound like the ones online. Thank you for this! I have my whole speech changed now but still what I wanted to say thank you.

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@samanthafernandes3902 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Thank you so much for the video! 🥰

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@bethanyborchelt5070 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Thank you so much for this video! Working on writing my sister in laws speech (my husbands sister) who doubles as my best friend. Of course I want it to be perfect and this definitely helped me work out the order and content that I should include

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@Loliehoo 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

This was super helpful to get my wheels turning! I felt so much more confident in starting my speech after watching this. Thank you!!!

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@jacquelienzakher7800 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Thank you so much , that was really helpful. God bless

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@TheRoyalchocolate 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

Notes to myself :
I’m honored to be here
Relation to the bride
Thank you to the parents of the bride and groom
Thanks to the bride for organizing everything
Memories about bride
Dynamic between the couple
Bring out the best in each other
End with a quote
Toast

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@SEDMvlogs 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

First of all, let me just say how helpful your guidance was in writing my speech for my sisters wedding this past weekend 6.18.22. I had something written up in March and then when I went to add to it , I wasn't happy with it. I watched your video and then totally scrapped what I originally had. Once I followed your guidelines and put more of my own personality into the speech vs trying to me too much like others it ended up being a hit. It was both sentimental and funny without even trying to be funny . I had the guests laughing and crying so I just want to let you know how truly helpful this was for me. As someone who is terrified of public speaking this gave me so much confidence and I was so happy with my speech and everyone was blown away by it as they kept coming up to me all night saying how great it was. You truly helped me so much! 🙂

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@lindseyfw2903 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

This was helpful and calmed me. Thank you Thank you!

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@bre.j 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

You said DO NOT mention exs and divorces, but what about widows? I'm the daughter of the bride. My mom and her fiance's are both widows. I would like to talk about the lose of my father, how our family moved changed, how my mother was the rock for all of us and what her fiance brings to our family, a rock for her. A companion, a love to grow old with. Is that ok?

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@kylieandjohnnyoapplespicy 10 October 2024 - 1:38 am

I'm the maid or honor at my best friends wedding. Im also the officiant, because my bestie thought no officiant would put on skates and skate around for the whole time. (The wedding is at Skateland, which is a skate rink)

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