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Actually this is a great vid! Thank you. Nice, I like to first ask the guest – how is everyone, having a good time ! We are gonna have some fun! Then I'll proceed to introduce the bridal party as special guests and first up then so on and I say it with energy and love. Everything done in love gives a personal touch
Thank you 🙏
Ladys and gentlemen up standing for BRIDE AND GROOM RAISE YOUR GLASS AND FOOD IS READY TO EAT
What's the difference between a DJ and MC ? Im planning my wedding, do I need both ?
When I do Grand Entrances I like to say things like Were going to get the Grand Entrance under way. Then when I announce the Bridal party I like to say First up is, Coming up next were gonna bring in, Lets keep it going and give a big round of applause for, its nice to mix it up and use different phrases, its sounds much more professional. Then when its time to announce the bride and groom I like to say "Now for the moment we have all been waiting for. It gives me great pleasure to introduce to you for the very first time Mr and Mrs . I would say the grand entrance is the most important part. The toasts, dances, cutting the cake and all the rest of the announcements you can pretty much just wing it.
i am like so shy like talking on the mic i just want to take of my fear of it can anybody give me tip
if you came from working in a strip club as a dj for years would you use your dj voice for a wedding or your own voice i been watching your channel for a while now thanks for your feed back.
hahah i say at this time all the time. I def need to get out of that habit
i don't find issue with using a "hyped" up voice when doing the introductions, as it is a moment of excitement and your voice should convey that excitement
when it comes to names, it is important that you get the names right, mispronouncing somebody's name is VERY offending, especially when you mis-pronounce the B&G's name.
Spell out the name as it sounds to you when you are told it by the B&G (this is where a pre-event mtg is needed), THEN on the day when you line them up, go over the names again with the person who is introduced
One thing I always do and recommend is to SMILE:) I always do and it really helps to REST of the party(Wedding or otherwise) to be a little more comfortable with the DJ.
Haaaa, Bill your killing me, It was DJ Ricky Suave' and your welcome for that tip back then.
Dont wait until the day of to get the names, try to get them the week before, and go over them with the bride on the phone, make notes, spell phonetically, and as you line people up for intros on the day of, this is your last chance to clarify with them with the person, make any corrections, speak clearly, dont rush
Is this the best advertisement ADJ can come up with?
Did you ever do a follow up video to this? I can't find it.
Ahh dude, I looked for you! I had lost my camera & was looking for it (the place was clearing out. didn't want it to grow legs). I looked for you after I discovered a friend had moved it (trying to be cool, but it f'ed me up for a few). You had asked twice & I wanted to give you some time because you had a big group with you. So sorry Dude. Hope I can make it up to you sometime.
I have become a wedding DJ by default. I agree that "At This Time" is a bad habit to break. I say it constantly. One little twist I do when introducing the bridal party is, I don't simply refer to them as the bridal party. I usual say something to the effect of "Ladies and gentleman, please direct your attention to the back of the room as we welcome the guests of honor". It makes it more personal and the seated guests always seem to like it.
Totally agree with your point. my philosophy is its YOUR wedding not MY event. I just want to be a facilitator in your special day. You convicted me with the "at this time" bit. Its a crutch that I picked up from the company I used to work for. any other phrases that I could use?
The Best way I learn't to MC is from doing Karaoke I know it's sounds strange but I will have to speak between songs, and I've learn't how to gee people up. I recommend it as form of training if you feel you need to MC like you say a lot of people want you to shut up!
I don't use it myself, but what's the problem with "at this time?" I can understand "um" as being a distracting word.
I have read all of the comments so far and there is one tip that i love. Pronunciation. I live and DJ in Taiwan. I practice my Chinese pronunciation all the time and I still struggle with certain pronunciation. Like in all aspects of DJ-ing, you need to practice. Before the event starts, find some one close to the the guest of honor and get their opinion on your name pronunciation. This way you will know for sure if you are getting it right.
Cool, I like this. I am amazed at how many weddings/social events that I go to, that the dj/mc either talks way too much, or not enough. A guideline to help everyone figure out the basics of what to, and not to say, um, would be helpful. At this time I would like to say that I agree that certain catch phrases should be remove from the dj's vocabulary.
I'm going to follow this one, for sure.
P.S. I hope you are still doing well with your recovery.
its weird how you sound so nice on video. but in person your so different. like when some one ask will you take a pic with me and you say no but then turn around and take a pic with them. or when a dad and his son asked you hey can we take a pic with you an just ignored them and walked away but hey shit happens right. Thanks any ways…
The only tip I have is, when you meet with your clients and they give you a list of the wedding party you need to announce, ask how the names are said and create your on list (spell it the way it sounds to you) it will help reduce any errors in pronunciation.
At This Time, ladies and gentlemen it is my extreme pleasure to say -great subject! always be yourself on the mic, don't try to create a different persona than who you are!
Geez brian comb your hair and shave your face before posting these videos brother.
Nice!
before I was allowed to go on air I had to do hours upon hours of dry runs in the production studio until I perfected my talent .. pretty much like Bo said below me. Practice makes perfect!!
Great Vid…. Keep preachin' brother!.!
Great vid idea Brian cant wait.
I'm with you on this one Bri… no scripts. BTW I've missed you videos…
Great idea Brian and I'm with you about shutting up for the most part. I try not to be the center of attention when I’m doing a wedding. I try to put the spotlight on the bride & groom and the wedding party. When I talk to the B&G when we first meet I ask them how much they want me to talk, they usually say they want me to be full of energy but not to be obnoxious and talk all the time.
You’re right about getting stuck in a pattern, mine is “And right now….”
Here’s one of the lines I use, that may be a bit cheesy but I still get laughs from it most of the time.
When I’m having trouble getting single guys to the dance floor for the garter toss I’ll say, “If you’re not sure if you’re single look at your left hand, if there’s not a ring on it chances are you are single and we need you on the dance floor”. P&E
Working in radio I teach many High School & College age kids the art of Emcee'ing. Am I the best at it NO. But I'm pretty good at weddings & being a hype Emcee at public events. The first thing I do after some basic script reading is make them record themselves. Many DJs have no idea what they really sound like until they hear themselves. Ex: improve an introduction, or make up a wedding toast. Then you're able to hear what you need to work on. Then record & repeat. I've got TONS of tip
I'm the same as you Brian. Not an "MC" type, but can move a reception along nicely.
One thing I do, is write down the names I'm going to be announcing, and I practice the intros in the days and sometimes weeks leading up to the event. Most of the time, I have names memorized and when the time comes, it just rolls right off my tounge.
That's my suggestion……rock on!!
well alot has to be inprovides at the momment and go by ear of the crowd and venue
1:26 lol
If you have to announce people's names, especially last names, GET THE CORRECT PRONUNCIATIONS. Write them out phonetically on the program or have the client give you a phonetic spelling (most people know when their friend or relative has a difficult name, so they won't be offended if you ask). That way you you don't end up guessing at how to say "Oschellegar" or "Bruggart".
Be yourself. Good luck !!
Small wedding Emceeing is much different than for a large crowd. You can be more personal and wordy with small crowds. Don't try love stories etc with groups over 300.
Great idea! Awesome!
Great idea Brian!!
we learned this in Speech class. lol
i hate when the DJ says " it's my pleasure"…bla bla i've even heard "it's my extreme pleasure" really sounds creepy!!!
1- Don't just talk on the mic to hear yourself, have something meaningful to say.
2- Practice at home in the mirror and record yourself so you can hear how other hear you.
3- Be sincere about everything you say on the mic. Be natural, and they'll listen.
4. Don't tell jokes…..SOMEONE will be offended.
5. Don't use a "Radio" voice. Speak in you natural tone.
I have learned a lot from guys like DJ Mikey Mike, DJ Stefan-Uptown Xpress and Vinnie Vegas just to name a few.