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We Canceled Our Wedding 2 Weeks Before (Right Call?)
We Canceled Our Wedding 2 Weeks Before (Right Call?)
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A man raising his voice at me is an automatic dealbreaker. Lover, boss, family, don’t care. We are done once that happens.
She choose him
That was classic love bombing on that dude’s part. Kind of wish John would’ve gone more into that aspect. Wanting to be extremely exclusive extremely fast and then pulling out the rug from under her is NOT normal behavior. Also he’s stringing her along as a backup if nobody else will take him. You should never be someone’s last option!
He sounds like a Dissmissive Avoidant, mine left me 4 months before the wedding!
*Cancelled
RUN GIRL RUN! HE WILL NEVER LOVE YOU! DO NOT TRUST HIM! HE IS DECEIVING YOU! AT THE END YOU WILL GET DIVORCED IF YOU MARRY HIM, BECAUSE HE LACKS MATURITY AND ACCOUNTANILITY!! YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE HIM!!
He has narcissist characteristics!! Love bombing and then abuse, RAGE etc. Please do not go back to him!! I am in a deliverance ministry and you will suffer for years!! She deserves a better life! She needs to heal and get herself back!
Red flags!!! Do not marry him!!
Everybody says "you'll find someone better!" Maybe you won't. Chances are, you actually will never be picked by someone decent.
Ask yourself, is being alone really that bad when the alternative is a bad relationship? It's daunting to accept being single forever because you're holding on to the romantic fantasy fed by movies and a few people who won the marriage lottery. But in reality, many relationships are objectively worse than being single.
This woman is stupid. A;; she does is excuse the lousy behavior of the creep in her life. She is taking half or more of the blame for breaking up, and ALL the guilt. She needs to get a spine and grow up.
Make sure your name is not on the deed of the house honey!!
It's hard to walk away from a one sided relationship if you don't feel good about yourself. After over 11 yrs with a self centered man who wouldn't hand me his phone without doing a few things on it first btw. I walked away in Jan when I worked on my sh#* and felt so much self love he had no hold on me. I met a wonderful man in Feb and healthy love is peaceful and sweet. I wish everyone the same. Don't settle!!
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My son loves his wife. He loves their 2 year old and works to bring home the bacon. He cooks too and cleans and mows the lawn and would never in a million years risk any of what he has for another woman. This is what the caller needs. My son cried looking at his fiancé when she walked down the aisle. Every woman deserves a man dedicated to HER!
Both are Harris supporters. They belong together
You can sit there and draw your ven diagrams. He’s moved on
Trial separation? If you aren’t married or have kids just separate and move on
Confirmation bias correction was brilliant!
feel happy that you know now really RUN and thank the Lord above
Phew getting married after meeting just 15 months ago is FAST. People can truly fall in love w each other in that time, but that’s NOT enough time to make such a HUGE commitment.
She is no saint in this. Both need to work on themselves
You are so much kinder to women than you are men. I get it. MAN UP! Needs to happen.
“Lack of regulation of anger”, I suspect she’s had years of therapy.