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WEDDING CATERING: The Styles, The Pros + The Cons

by Jamie Wolfer
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WEDDING CATERING: The Styles, The Pros + The Cons

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@PartsUnknownn 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Yes long video but packed with great info ! Thank you!

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@cjdp238 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

I know this is super old… but WHAT ABOUT FAMILY STYLE

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@JenniMoore 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Can you talk about Family Style catering?

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@MsRebeca4 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Thank you very informative

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@katepurkeypyle2221 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Currently rewatching this again 20 minutes before meeting with a caterer,Jamie your a lifesaver!

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@gatzwolffadventures 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

I had plans to mix and match styles. Passed apps, app stations, carve station, plated dinner, buffet style grab and sit dessert passed champagne for toasts.

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@sdinardi1970 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

How does Family Style work? If you have 50 to 80 guests

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@nadiadansani2139 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Cake and appetizer weddings are the WORST 💀 the event flow still sucks if there are a ton or people, and people taking wayyyy more than the couple planned

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@ashleyoverholt449 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

I would love to see, the family style video, as well.

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@JewelBlueIbanez 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

One way to save money on your reception and food/server costs is to look into a trade school/community college that has a culinary program. My community college had a very well respected culinary program and hosted huge fundraising dinners, wedding receptions, etc, but saved a lot of on labour costs because the food was prepared by students under the strict supervision of professionals, and the servers were trained student volunteers who got work experience, volunteer hours and a free restaurant quality steak dinner.

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@angiekelley9038 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Thank you so much for your channel. You're really helping me to weaponize my autism so that I know I'll when I get married.

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@lbfaith 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

I would probably combine cafe style buffet style initially and self serve if they’re still hungry for seconds. May combine that with the stations. Cold station for salads (not sure if I’d do same time as dinner or as an appetizer) pasta station and the main station for meat and sides. You gave me a lot of great ideas to do this

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@alexxwalton31 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Jamie, what do you suggest to do as far as catering 55 people for under 700$? I am so stressed out about it now!

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@ryerye5697 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Hey Jaimie!!! Could you help the DIY brides out with providing details about how to obtain catering licenses?? I am a phenomenal cook with 2.5 years to plan a wedding. I really want to create most of the food/entrees a few days before instead of spending thousands on catering

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@keonkart 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

So inspired, thanks for sharing . .
It's recomended for me,
For weddingers community . . .

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@ashleyoverholt449 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

If your having a wedding buffet, it might be best if you had to buffet table, on each sides of the room. With the same food on it, and also having severs, as well, and it would go quicker.

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@audrey1053 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

I'm doing an appetizer only catering, but as a complete and large meal.
Firstly because our venue mainly does this type of events.
But also, because I think finger food is just so delicious. F that dry chicken served an hour late.

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@pearlvillanueva1519 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Hi Jamie! new here in your channel… downloaded the wedding timeline as well! Amazing! the wedding email is very helpful! finding you is very timely 10-11 months before our small wedding in Italy (45-50 guests)… still checking all your videos… destination wedding is challenging but it'll be worth it!

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@ptc726c2 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Plated dinners are not always more expensive than buffets.. This is coming from a catering manager at a luxury hotel – you can actually save money on a dinner by going with a chicken entree and vegetarian entree plated dinner because they are cheaper than the per person buffet dinner price. With buffets, the hotel would still staff clearers/bussers and food replenishers. Buffets do not always reduce the amount of servers and therefore save lots of money. At least in the hotel space it depends on the menu! Dinner buffets were $60++ per person. A 3 course plated dinner with vegie entree was $52++ and a chicken entree was $58++.

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@preondagraham1788 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Doing a plated dinner, you have to do a seating chart . I don’t have time for that

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@preondagraham1788 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Food trucks 🛻 is a NO for me

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@preondagraham1788 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

What about cocktail hours or snacks before dinner

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@LuceWithLove 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

People in the US be choosing between a sit down meal and buffet while in Czech Republic, where I'm getting married, guests expect a sit-down lunch, an afternoon barbecue, snack bars all day and a buffet dinner 🙃 RIP our budget

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@tamnvfree4752 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

So, so many questions. Having 2pm wedding in a church, with reception to follow in church building. 150 guests. Just planning a cake and punch reception, but figure we out to have some appetizers. How many types of appetizers do we need to have? How many per person? What is approximate cost per person? I know caters are going to ask what’s the budget, but I don’t know what’s reasonable.

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@vidincrisis 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Literally never been to any thing other than buffet for weddings. With the way Indian weddings are, nothing else would even work hahah

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@megaamold9597 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

LOVE this video! Thank you so much for sharing your expertise, as an event server (off site, golf club and hotel) for 11 years folks don’t realize the work that goes into the food, and why it’s so expensive! It’s so hard to serve in a timely manner if the bridal party is running behind. We want guests to enjoy their meal and have a great time! At inclusive event centers, the servers are often setting up the room too (and cutting your cake, and sharing their aux cord when the groom forgets it, getting your intoxicated guests into cabs, playing defense when you’re overbearing Aunt wants to change the layout…) great event staff are hard to find, but worth more than diamonds ❤️

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@haiphu6584 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

I love your videos! You were talking about food trucks and I was trying to find the link to it but couldn’t ever find it. Can you please send it over?

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@sarahobrien997 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

For my sister's wedding she did heavy hor d'oeuvres, but according to her it's really normal for weddings in New Orleans (which is where it was held). I think she told those not from New Orleans that's what was going to happen.

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@92jaxs 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

My mom, mil, and aunt are going to make meat with rice, beans, and tortillas 3 trays of each. Our waiters are going to serve them

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@franciscolara3949 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Good morning, Jamie Wolfer I follow you from Minnesota, very good videos.

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@carolcallen4059 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Could you do a video about appetizers? Of course, everyone has different tastes but I'd be curious to know, in your experience, what gets eaten and what doesn't. Thanks.

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@jamie3197 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Absolutely seconding the point of TELL YOUR GUESTS IF YOU INTEND ON DOING AN APPETISER ONLY RECEPTION. My partner and I recently attended a wedding where no one was informed before hand, and it was only brought up in passing in one of the speeches on the night. Because we expected a regular dinner at the reception we, and many other guests, who had to travel up to 3 hours to attend didn't eat before hand. So while we did all eventually get filled up on appetiser, there were a lot of disgruntled guests in the first few hours. Some were even considering ducking out quickly to Maccas or getting UberEats sent to the parking lot.

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@billhansen9029 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Jamie How many guests would you recommend per buffet line?

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@thoughtfulsamosa6037 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Here I am, years away from getting married, and binging your videos 😂😂😂

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@lifewithtrenel 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

I started watching this video thinking for sure that I want a plated dinner reception, however, cafeteria buffet and stations also now sound appealing. In my experience attending weddings, plated dinner are never very satisfying but we eat it because we have to lol the best part is that it doesn’t distract from the program which if the program is packed with acts would be a huge benefit. However, if I’m going to pay for food for my guests, I feel guests should enjoy it so cafeteria style may be best. Stations also seem cool simply because most venues near me serve Italian food and my family and my fiancé’s are Caribbean and I want Caribbean food at my wedding. I’m not sure how to deal with this but stations may be it. The best mix that I’ve seen at a wedding was for the cocktail hour, there was a self serve buffet of appetizers and a few entre items and then later in there was a plated dinner. Most people did not eat their dinner though because they were full from the cocktail hour

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@maiahobx7375 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

I’m thinking about doing a planned potluck… like putting 5 or 6 ladies at my church in charge of putting it all out and asking certain people ahead of time to make things I know I like. (MAC AND CHEESE AT MY WEDDING? Maybe 😂) What do y’all think?

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@TearitoffE 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

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@jazziered142 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

My two favorite weddings were serve yourself buffet-style. The food was amazing both times.

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@alysonrus8711 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

Hi Jamie; I have watched most of your videos; you ROCK! My fiancé and I are considering August/September 2021 for our wedding but have not set our date yet. Anywho, for our reception we're (also) strongly considering to have a potluck-style meal with immediate family including my 2 brothers, his 3 sisters, my parents and daughters, and nieces and nephews (youngest being 13 at that time). What are your thoughts on this idea? He is of Jamaican background and my family and I are of French Canadian background so are thinking will make for a very interesting variety of food. We would very much appreciate your idea/feedback on this. And I forgot to mention that the rest of our guests will be invited to our dance for the evening.

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@DarkNekoCrochet 3 October 2024 - 12:20 pm

I’m that person at Starbucks 🤣

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