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Wedding Guest Dresses | What To Wear To A Wedding or Semi-Formal Event | Women Over 40

by Marnie Goldberg
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Wedding Guest Dresses | What To Wear To A Wedding or Semi-Formal Event | Women Over 40

If you’ve ever wondered what to wear to a wedding, I’m giving you 10 ideas for wedding guest dresses under $200-from daytime, garden parties to black tie evening gowns.

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My current measurements (to help you figure out your own sizing):
Height: 5’4”
34D-26-36
(I prefer petite length on most pants)

Link to today’s outfit: https://liketk.it/4ADye

1️⃣ Blue/White Floral Dress
https://bit.ly/3PgVVHj
Size…

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@MsGoldgirl 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

✴✴ GET ALL THE LINKS, SIZING AND PRICES HERE! ⬇⬇

My current measurements (to help you figure out your own sizing):
Height: 5’4”
34D-26-36
(I prefer petite length on most pants)

Link to today’s outfit: https://liketk.it/4ADye

1⃣ Blue/White Floral Dress
https://bit.ly/3PgVVHj
Size XS
$124
Sizing XS-XXL
Shoes (TTS) https://bit.ly/3HV1QgU
Handbag https://bit.ly/4cc8UUs

2⃣ Amazon Tweed Dress
https://bit.ly/48LqxYo
Size XS
$46.99
Sizing ranges XS-XL
Shoes (Similar) https://bit.ly/43gvnLU
Handbag https://bit.ly/3PjK8rK

3⃣ BRF Blouson Sleeve Maxi Dress
https://bit.ly/3wXq3Rq
XS PETITE
$60
Sizing XXS-L and petite sizing
Shoes (TTS) https://bit.ly/4aclEsw
Handbag https://bit.ly/3TcgJkl

4⃣ Chelsea28 Floral Tiered Maxi Dress
https://bit.ly/3Pe9aIx
Size XS
$99.50
Sizing XXS-XXL
Shoes https://bit.ly/4aclEsw
Handbag https://bit.ly/3TiR1e9

5⃣ Eliza J Long Sleeved Tiered Dress
https://bit.ly/3IycLh3
Size 2
$138
Sizing 0-18
Shoes https://bit.ly/4aclEsw
Handbag https://bit.ly/3v1jDR1

6⃣ Adelyne Rae Scallop Lace Mini Dress-
Brand runs small
https://bit.ly/3IsMv7E
Size Small
$159
XS-XL
Shoes https://bit.ly/4aclEsw
Handbag https://bit.ly/4cc8UUs

7⃣ Shirred Side Satin Midi Dress
https://bit.ly/3T90c0s
Size 0-Regular
$60
Sizing 0-18 and Petites
Shoes https://bit.ly/3vcb71r
Handbag https://bit.ly/3PjK8rK

8⃣ One Shoulder Pleated Midi Dress-BLACK
https://bit.ly/3wWiFpt
Size 0-Regular
$75
Sizing 0-18 and petites
Shoes https://bit.ly/3VhNgbw
Handbag https://bit.ly/3TcgJkl

9⃣ Amazon Off The Shoulder Body Con Dress
https://bit.ly/3wNGLmu
Size Small-Something like 12 or 13 colors
$53
Sizing S-XXL
Shoes https://bit.ly/3VhNgbw
Handbag https://bit.ly/3v1jDR1

🔟Amazon Puffy Shoulder Tiered Midi Dress
https://bit.ly/3wJIRnb
Size Small
Plaid Rose Red-some colors come in this fabric that looks more like an organza
$41
Sizing S-XXL
Shoes https://bit.ly/3H1slSk
Handbag https://bit.ly/3v1jDR1

WHAT I’M WEARING FOR THE TALKING PART
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Square Birthstone Necklace https://bit.ly/3Vcehgn
Round Birthstone Necklace https://bit.ly/3tyYSL3
Pave Hoop Earrings https://bit.ly/3gPowWh
^Code MSGOLDGIRL15 for 15% off my jewelry
Dior Forever Glow Foundation-N2 https://bit.ly/3FnSWrP
Natashas Denona Eyeshadow Palette-Camel
Lawless Lip Balm-Whisper https://bit.ly/49j1EV5
Lawless Lip Gloss-Nudie https://bit.ly/3UK67M1
Aquamarine Eternity Band https://bit.ly/2PcfG6r
David Yurman Cable Bracelet http://bit.ly/2yaW7gN
Lagos Silver Caviar Diamond Bracelet http://bit.ly/2zCorgU
Lagos Caviar Color Hinge Cuff Bracelet http://bit.ly/2tVFczu
Michele Deco Diamond Watch https://bit.ly/3vyIv2l

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@peggypokorny6894 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Marnie, I wore one of your recommendations for a garden wedding, now I have an early January in Colorado wedding to attend. For a winter wedding, is it practical to wear short sleeves? I do love the navy blue from Banana Republic in this video.

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@luciannedemarco6296 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

WOuld love your help! Need ideas for fall formal wedding guest attire for women asap. Thank you!

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@janevizi370 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Looking for suggestions please. I’m terrible at picking out dresses, and am very casual. Have a wedding in south Carson January. They said black tie optional. My husband will wear a black suit, but I’m at a loss of what to wear. I’m about 5 2 and yep have to loose weight so I wear about a large. Don’t want to be super over dressed and want to be comfy.
Any suggestions for this gal? Thanks so much.

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@danielledw4 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Please help. Going to a wedding for the first time. Can i wear black to a wedding? It's the only color I like to wear lol

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@dorismutoshi776 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

I like no. 7 dress

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@marlajames2376 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Could you do this same video for fall dresses soon? Love your taste! My son is having an outdoor Austin/Dripping Spring wedding in November and having such a hard time finding a dress I like!

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@BASK1120 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Formal wed. This sat. 330pm I'm 65, what do I wear?? Still not clear on this😥

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@vickywitton1008 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

I am over 50 and I love the short green dress but not sure about my legs anymore!

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@JoLinda-q3p 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Late fall, over 50, semi-formal. LOVE a Ely help so far.❤I have a beautiful peal grey shear velvet burnout dress and southseas pearls to wear to a semi-formal wedding. I feel this will be perfectly tasteful

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@annseabolt6645 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

#2 you could time travel to 1968 and be right at home.

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@beverlyhale9687 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

You spent $128 on a Spanx gray sweatshirt? It must be really special, so out of my price range.

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@rosecook8598 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Great choices. You have convinced me about beige shoes. I have a size 11. That will definitely make them look smaller

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@kathysteele3071 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

First time viewer. Perfect timing. Will check out these dresses…..my grandson is getting married next June in a semi formal backyard wedding. Gives me a year to get those arms in shape!

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@onionsbroccoli-on6jf 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Hi, how did you do your hair in this vid? I love, and I'm going to cut my hair soon. Do you use a straightener to achieve this look?

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@Sisysue 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

After watching this video I went online and bought the pink sleeveless dress from Nordstrom… wore it last saturday for a wedding outdoors in Idaho… oh my gosh, I got so many compliments! It was perfect and so pretty… I’m 65 and it looked absolutely fine with a light pink sweater for when the sun went down.. I absolutely love this dress!!

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@dorisgray8306 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

We went on a cruise last year and I needed two formal dresses. I got both of them on Amazon, neither was expensive and they were plenty nice enough. We live on an island and rarely wear anything formal so I wasn’t interested in spending too much money. Anyway, I was comfortable and felt dressed comparably to the other women, not a lot sparkle but very nice nevertheless. I’m like you though I did get a little stupid with the shoes and purses!! Oh well

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@dianavasile8067 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Loved this video, thank you for sharing. Very helpful

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@mariaramirez4357 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Your gorgeous and do not look a day over 30.

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@sydneymathuka4228 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Wear you are beutiful

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@chelleychelley8299 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Love all these options!!!

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@KathyJacksonSanDiegoRealEstate 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

That pink mid century dress is sweet.

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@carmijok1 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Oh wow, that second dress takes me back to the 60's! Love it on you!

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@SjoFashionHub 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Please suport me

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@FCPA1997 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Great video! Thank you!!

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@flaviapoetic.perfumes4700 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

I love literally every single dress you've shown! And I do have a question. What does it mean to "dress to not outshine the bride"? I'm Brazilian and I had never heard of that until I moved to the US. In my mind, it isn't possible to outshine a bride on her wedding day. It is HER wedding day and all eyes will be on her regardless of what any guest might be wearing. In my mind, as long as guests stick to wearing something appropriate for the type of wedding and what it calls for (black tie, beach casual, etc…), they can, and should, dress as beautifully as they possibly can. Oh, and as long as they stay away from wearing white, of course. But if following those two rules, what can one do that would be perceived as trying to outshine the bride? I genuinely want to know, because when I ask people, I get all sorts of weird and different answers like "stick to dark or neutral colors" and "dress down and try not to look too pretty".

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@KathyJacksonSanDiegoRealEstate 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Pretty dresses!! That short pink one is 1960s

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@Darry4645 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Bought that black & white print dress from Banana Republic Factory for a summer wedding in Seattle

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@carlacampbell1220 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

I love that you give us price points that are high and low.You never disappoint.❤

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@f8thfulmom 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Hello Marnie, I bought the #9 dress in black for my husband’s company Christmas party.
I absolutely loved it! I felt so beautiful and comfortable in it! I can’t believe it was only $53.
It is also very forgiving. Amazing gown!

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@nita4546 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Wow. This was a wonderful video . Very helpful and you wear those dresses better then an actual model!

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@stephro74 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

I have the navy Banana Factory dress (I went with petite because I was concerned about where the rouching would fall. I'm 5'4" and that was the right choice – exchange if you can!), and I cannot wait to wear it to a wedding in April and our cruise in June!

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@TedDanson-w8w 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Youre so perfect ❤

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@44macymoo 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

I have to say that this wedding dress video was one of the best videos you have ever done. The dresses looked beautiful on you. The last dress was absolutely stunning! You must keep that one! ❤

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@sherrygaster3730 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Great suggestions! You looked gorgeous in the full length gown. I have a wedding to attend in late April so this video was helpful. Thank you!❤😊

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@deeecanta 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

WOW Number 9 is drop dead gorgeous!

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@JS-oy6ig 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Love this Video 👗😍 My youngest daughter got married last September in a Garden Venue in Franklin,TN🤍
I found THE PERFECT Mother of the Bride dress in the Eliza J brand that is found in Belk/Dillards.
I was ready to drop a small fortune…but I didn’t have to🙌🏻
Btw – What are you doing?? I think you have never looked better👏🏻👏🏻 Please share🥰

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@salliestephens1252 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Ohmygoodness this is SO helpful! My nephew is getting married at an estate in Austin over Labor Day weekend where the dress is "summer formal". I know it's going to be hot! Some of these dresses fit the bill for me. Thank you Marnie!

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@hanflieu1425 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

You are so beautiful 😻

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@sueroth6686 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Marnie I love these dresses and you always accessorize perfectly! A word about Eliza J dresses: they are for short-waisted ladies, similar to the Anthropologie Somerset dress. They are lovely but I can’t wear either because I am long waisted.

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@CarenCarrillo 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

That Avara dress is EXACTLY what I’ve been looking for! Thanks for the recommendation!

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@michellekelley-malicensedr5656 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Thanks so much for this video! It was great!! I would love to order the black one shoulder dress from Banana Republic Factory. I think it's perfect! I do have a question though … I am very close to your measurements but I am 5' 6" and I noticed you said you were wearing a size "0" . I'm usually a size 2 or a size 4 in dresses. Does this dress run large? Thank you!

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@catherinejohnson7460 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Amazon Jimmy Choo knock-offs? Did I miss them?

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@rhondawhite5686 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Marnie I really appreciated this deep dive into dresses for spring events. I have an evening wedding in early April & I didn’t know where to begin looking for the right dress. Your suggestions came just in time. Thanks for all the hard work you put in to making your videos.

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@kristinj7173 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

What a great 70s vibe with number 2! Nice. Thanks for all the options. We have at least one summer backyard garden wedding/party so far and it is smart to think ahead. Keep up the “theme” recommendations.

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@catharineschleider9551 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

This was very helpful and you look beautiful in every single dress!

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@teresag75 15 October 2024 - 6:42 pm

Marnie, how should I dress for a beach wedding (ceremony) with an indoor reception, that I feel will be pretty formal? For instance, MOB is wearing black floor length all over sparkly gown; bridesmaids in gold satin dresses. The bride is my daughter's SIL and my husband has been asked to be the officiant, so I know I will be included in some of the photos and don't want to look underdressed. Help!

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