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Who Gets a Plus-One?
When it comes to your wedding guest list, who will you allow to have a plus-one invitation? Adrienne says no one can bring an extra guest to her upcoming nuptials. Find out why in this discussion.
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The bride has the last word. If you don’t like it, then you don’t show up.
In trinidad we have no random plus 1s. If you're married, you can bring your spouse and maybe kids but unmarried people are usually expected to come alone.
This guest is soo pretty!!!!! Wow!
I had less than 20 people at my wedding. Turned out to be a good thing, too, because two days later, the entire state shut down due to Covid-19. I knew and loved every person there.
What !? Every wedding I been to its always plus ones with everybody !!?
My ex boyfriend friend was invited to his friends wedding and I was his plus one. But him and I were dating for over a year. His friend and his soon to be wife didn’t know me all.
Why is Loni being difficult LOL.
People only inviting married couples to weddings as if more than half those couples won’t be divorced in a few years. A ring and a marriage means nothing these days. Loni is choosing to never marry. So she’d never be able to bring another person with her to a wedding?? It’s just another way to shame singles.
Long term significant others and spouses who I am comfortable with only. Like they said, I'm not paying $30-$100 a plate for someone I don't know or don't like. They haven't been anywhere near my union, they haven't even met my husband, but they're coming to my wedding? What sense does that make (unless you don't care for it to be intimate)? I'm not spending extra money on a venue that seats 400 instead of a venue I can fit 250 in just because every friend and aunt wants to bring their coworker/ex/random Tinder date. My wedding is not the place for a third date. Like they said, there is nothing wrong with being in the presence of people who have actively been involved in celebrating your union, people who exert positive energy (I do not want negativity on this important, blessed day), and people who you are confident will act right. No one should be that offended if they can't have a plus one. It's not your day, it's not about you, and it's not that serious on your end.
I agree with Lonnie
With that analogy, only my sisters would make the cut to being invited to y wedding
It was a big fiasco because my husband (then fiancé) & I left so many people off our list. Didn't bother us not one ☝🏾 bit. There were people who he grew up with & I grew up with that we hadn't seen in years, asking for a invitation. It was so funny to us, because if we felt like they didn't believe in our union or if they doubted our relationship. No Invite Period, Especially the people that just wanted to be nosy
At a Mexican wedding, everyone's invited lol
I think only if you know the plus one then they should come
I want to note that if you rsvp that your coming than please go. me and my husband got 60 rsvp back saying yes buy only 30 came. I could of save so much money on food. those 30 people were his family also, it made me so mad and upset because only 4 people from his family came.
having this same issue… I feel like people (specially my single friends) are expecting a plus one. But I can't afford that. If you're married or in a serious relationship or if I know that you're not friends with anyone else then ok. Otherwise no plus one for you.
DAM LONI those faces hahahahahahahahababa
Too loud for me.
Gotta Love Loni Love <3 <3 <3
Myself and my boyfriend have been together for five years, and his cousin is getting married this summer. I've known her for five years yet I've not been invited as his plus one. I just think that's plain rude, especially when their friends are allowed their partners as plus ones even if they've only been together for a short time. Surely a long term couple should be invited together at a wedding?
I'm Mixed with several races but mostly Tanzanian ive witnessed my cousins weddings and where it's more than a plus one I've seen my mom invite her friends and my grandma invite her friends and there husbands and her neighbors because they consider it "our" wedding so the blood family are allowed to invite anyone and everyone so we end up with like 250 people weddings but no one not even the bride thinks of it and it's disrespectful culture to say something like "grandma don't invite your friend"
is that kelly from if loving you is wrong? love that show
the thing with brown people is that we invite everyone! my cousins engagement had 700 people and her wedding had more WE GO ALL OUT
KELLY!!!!